This is based
on biology and anthropology. Say that something happened that wiped out
most of the people on the planet. The goal is to repopulate the planet.
Say there is one woman and 5,000 men. Not considering multiple births,
the fastest they can repopulate the planet is one baby every 9 months and
so the mother would be careful with that baby. Also once she was pregnant,
sex would not help until after the baby is born.
Say that there are 5,000 women and one healthy male. To repopulate the planet, he should not get one woman pregnant and just settle down with her. If he does what he has been designed to do, in 9 months, there would be over 10 babies born everyday. He will not be spending much time with the mothers but will be busy creating new mothers. The healthy male body produces a lot of testosterone. This is the one hormone that increases sex drive.
Among kangaroos, the toughest male has sex with all the females and the other males cannot have sex with the other females. This way the children get the toughness of the male that is the best fighter. With Cheetahs the male wants to have sex all the time. But he only gets to have sex with the female when she is in heat. While she is in heat, they will mate (have sex) about 80 times per day. Of course with animals, they are their bodies. But humans are not their bodies. They are and have divine souls. So someone can choose to be a monk or a nun. The hormones do not come from the soul, but from the body.
For more on relationships and the spiritual side of them, see Prescription for Happiness. I just saw something on the internet about dating. It said should we date similars or opposites. Well if you are looking for a spouse to help you get a political post and do not care about love, then date someone with similar ideas. If not, then it doesn't matter just like if you should date a blonde or brunette (they can always change it). Date someone who you like and not someone who you do not like. This has nothing to do with someone's thoughts and ideas.
Michael F. Roizen, M.D., author of You: The Owner's Manual, says that research has shown that sex is good for the immune system and for anti-aging. But the research pointed out a difference among men and women. With men it is quantity that helps them. While with women, it is the quality that makes a difference with them.
Then there is a difference when they get older. For the man to be a father, he only needs to have sex one time. For the woman, she needs to carry and nourish the fetus for 9 months and then nurse the baby afterwards. So men can father children into their 60s and 70s, if they are healthy. For the woman, after 40 her job gets harder. So at a time the woman's body changes so instead of being a mother to a child, she can be a mother to humanity (menopause). This is a healthy change but MDs have a history of stopping the body from helping itself due to ignorance. Like the body will try to vomit out something toxic and the MD has a drug to stop the body from doing what it is supposed to.
Many times the male, when he is older, will seek out a younger female. A famous example of this is with the movie director, John Derek. He was 52 and married, when he met this 14 year old model. They loved each other and he divorced his wife and moved out of the U.S. so he would not commit statutory sexual assault (statutory rape). When she was old enough, they moved back to the U.S. and got married. She, Bo Derek, starred in the movie 10. They were married for 22 years when he died at 74 years old. Then in 2006, Bo Derek was the star of the TV show, Fashion House. Note that the age of consention (where they are old enough to consent [agree] to having sex) is 16 in most of the 50 states but not all of them.
I am not saying whether the above is right or wrong. That deals with morals and morals are affected by the rules of the society. It there were not a law against polygamy (being married to more than one person) then a woman could be happily married to 3 guys as long as they do to mind. Jealousy is considered a negative emotion. When a man has a few wives, I hear that the wives will be like sisters to each other.
As an example of rules of society, during World War II, the Japanese and Americans were trying to get the people of the Island of New Guinea to be allies. They were cannibals meaning they ate humans. The American general told the king that the Japanese were bad. The king said that both the Japanese and Americans were bad since they both kill many more people than they can possibly eat!
Also many woman have an unhealthy lifestyle and the body has trouble making this transition. I have heard many great testimonials from woman undergoing this change of menopause (but with problems) and they were able to help it go smoother using an herbal food called Sumacazon. It is designed to nourish the endocrine system glands so they work better. See this website Sumacazon for Menopause for more information on it.
A new TV show demonstrates a good example of the difference between man and women. The TV show is called Real Wedding Crashers. The goal of the first scene is to get this women invited to the wedding. The best man goes to the cake store. He meets another customer, an extremely beautiful looking woman. All these cakes are in the room in a line. The store owner gets a call and while on the phone asks the guy to bring him a book. The book is near but not touching the first stack of cakes. When he grabs it, that stack of cakes falls knocking down the others in domino fashion (it was rigged to do that).
The store owner is very upset and yelling at this guy for ruining all these cakes. The best man is not saying anything since he is in shock. Then this woman (a stranger) comes to his defense and says it is not his fault and the owner should have got his own book. She acts like she loves this guy. So this guy invites her to the wedding.
So the best man is already at the wedding and this beautiful woman (his date) walks in, wearing an extremely expensive wedding dress. Everyone at the wedding is looking at her. Her wedding dress looks better than the bride's dress and she is more beautiful looking than the bride. The women have looks of horror on their faces. Some are saying that she should leave. Now this best man is probably thinking "She is hot. I want her." The other guys there did not look upset. They were probably thinking the same thing and were in awe of how beautiful this woman looked.
So the bride comes up to that woman and slaps her. So everyone thinks that the bride must be really upset. Then an announcement is made that the bride and groom wanted a wedding that everyone would remember and talk about for years. So they brought in that TV show to cause bizarre things to happen at the wedding.
I have noticed some guys have been asking about how to stop masturbating on the forums. If you are raping women, you should see a therapist. Also you could be arrested. If you want to stop masturbating, then go to the police and confess. Do you think that they are going to say "well, we will let you go this time but next time you are going to jail." No they will not say this. It is not illegal. It does not cost any money like drinking alcohol and smoking. It is like exercise for your body. It does not hurt anyone. There is a way to feel no desire for it. If you fast for 7 days, my experience shows that the body stop producing testosterone and you have no sexual desire at all. See page on fasting. Make sure to read the above about cheetahs.
Also when males are young, the hormones (testosterone) can really go into overdrive. Just make sure not to masturbate in public. But there is nothing wrong with it. In the movie, Something About Mary, a guy was told it was not good to go out with a woman, if you have not masturbated first. It is a comedy. So he made sure to do it first so it would not be like walking around with a cocked gun. In fact did you know that guys are paid to masturbate. They have these clinics where they have you go into a room and masturbate and then you give them your sperm. They use it to get women pregnant. The announced on the news that a study showed that men who masturbated 5 times a week or more were 30% less likely to have spelling mistakes.
You can say that male masturbation is like picking your nose. People do it, but not in public. Also they do not talk about it. There is nothing at all wrong with masturbation. There is something wrong with you being uptight and killing someone because they pissed you off. Now people do drink and smoke in public. The book, Conversations with God, says that people who smoke or drink have a lot of self-hate. I say that people who drink or smoke are stupid and have mental problems. You can make money masturbating. There are clinics that pay for your semen and you masturbate there and they pay you. Smoking and drinking cost money.
Masturbation is free and God gave you the ability to do it. In fact the only purpose of the female organ, the clitoris, is for self pleasure and it has no other purpose. It is similar to the male penis whereas the vagina is similar to the male sac containing testicles, but it is inside instead of outside. See the movie, Borat. It is the funniest movie. There is a scene where he masturbates in public. It is legal since he did not expose himself. Doing that is even worse than picking your nose.
I am a big
fan of Einstein and his theory of relativity. When his theory was proven,
the NY Times headline said "Lights All Askew in the Heavens...Einstein's Theory Triumphs."
But then I saw this quote by Einstein, "Neither can I believe that the
individual survives the death of his body, although feeble souls harbor
such thoughts through fear or ridiculous egotism."
It sounds like he was ignorant of the science of cosmology. It says that if someone wonders how far outside the physical universe space extends or how long it was before the physical universe came into existence, it has no meaning. Space and time are only part of the physical universe, not part of the non-physical universe.
Can you imagine no time? There is no past and future or before and after. So it is not like someone who dies in the physical universe will afterwards start to exist in the non-physical universe. But we could have always existed in the non-physical universe and exist there now.
In psychology
there is the flow experience, with at least 3 books on it. During it people
can experience the stopping of time. Maybe they are experiencing the part
of themselves that exists in the non-physical universe that is beyond time
and space. For more information on this see (What
is Enlightenment).
The following is not recognized by Christians since the bible does not tell about evolution or intersexuals (see Wikipedia). Evolution is trying out many different types of humans to find the best one. Intersexuals can have every imaginable combination like one ovary and one testicle. There was a male who got a sex change and became a successful female model (Tululu) in Europe. A male has xy chromosomes. A female has xx chromosomes. Tululu had xxy chromosomes so she was an intersexual. It is estimated that there are about 54,000 intersexuals in the USA. That is about 1 in every 5,500.
Also all babies (while still in womb) start out as females. The testosterone changes the girl into a boy. A person can be immune to testosterone (rare) and then it does not change the girl into a boy even though he is a boy, but one that looks like a girl. When a girl has her period then she can know that the above is not the case with her.
The following goes against modern Christianity but not the old Christianity. The people in the East believe in reincarnation. People report remembering being a different gender in a past life. Now if someone does not have an attachment to one gender or the other, they can just accept the gender of their body. But if they have an attachment to a gender different than their body, then they will have gender problems or issues.
A Harvard trained psychiatrist, Dr Weiss, does psychotherapy on past lives and has many others who learned it from him. To see his books, go this page: Enlightened People.
The human
body is based on 5 and phi-- the golden ratio.
The torso has 5 appendages. Each limb has 5 appendages. The face has 5 holes in it. Raise 5 to the 0.5 power (the square root of 5). Multiply
it by 0.5 and add 0.5 and you get phi. All
animals are based on phi. It is the ratio
where when you divide something into 2 parts, the larger part is to the
smaller part as the whole is to the larger part. Divide the smaller part
into the larger
part and you get a number larger than 1 (1.6180339...). Divide the larger
number into the smaller number and you get the same number without the
1 (0.6180339...). In other words the inverse of phi is the same number
but without the 1. The length of your head compared to the width of your
head, the length of your upper body (above navel) compared to the length
of your lower body and the length of your lower arm compared to the length
of your upper arm are just some of the places on your body that have the
golden ratio.
All trees and plants are based on the Fibonacci sequence where the next number is the sum of the two previous numbers (1, 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, 13...). As this gets higher, the ratio of 2 numbers in sequence approaches phi-- the golden ratio. There is the very famous drawing of Leonardo Da Vinci of man (see drawing on the left). He drew this to go in his friend's book, The Divine Proportion, to illustrate phi-- the golden ratio. If you like this website, then tell everyone you know about it and check back for more of the latest news about health and well being.
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